Holy Communion (The Lord’s Supper)

What Is Communion?
Communion, often called “The Lord’s Supper,” is a sacred celebration in which believers identify with the crucifixion of Jesus Christ (1 Corinthians 10:16, 11:20). It is a special time for Christians to remember the Lord’s broken body and His shed blood, given for all people (Luke 22:19-20).

How Communion Was Instituted
Jesus Christ established Communion on the night before His crucifixion, during the Passover meal with His disciples (Matthew 26:26-29; Mark 14:22-25; Luke 22:14-20; 1 Corinthians 11:23-25).

A traditional Passover meal includes four cups. The first cup is the Cup of Thanksgiving, mentioned in Luke 22:17: “He took the cup and gave thanks.”

Early in the meal comes the second cup, the Cup of Plagues, reminding participants of God’s judgment on Egypt.

After the meal, the middle piece of unleavened matzo bread is broken. Half is wrapped in a cloth and hidden, then later brought out and shared as the final portion. This is paired with the third cup, called the Cup of Blessing or Cup of Redemption, which recalls the blood of the Passover lamb on the doorposts.

Jesus most likely instituted the Lord’s Supper with this third cup and the broken bread. The hidden and returned matzo beautifully pictures our Messiah: His sinless body was broken in death, wrapped and hidden in the tomb, then raised to life by the power of God, a reward of eternal life for all who partake in Him.

The fourth cup (Cup of Elijah or Cup of Praise) looks forward in hope to the coming Messiah, with the expectant cry, “Next year in Jerusalem!”

The Meaning and Symbolism
In the early church, bread and wine were used for the Lord’s Supper. Today, many churches, including ours, use unleavened crackers and grape juice. This practice aligns with the original Passover elements and with Jesus’ own words about the “fruit of the vine” (Matthew 26:29).

The bread represents Christ’s body, which was broken for us as He bore the punishment for our sins. The cup represents His blood, which was shed to pay the full price for our sins and bring us forgiveness (John 10:17-18; Ephesians 1:7; Romans 5:8-9).

Who Should Participate and How to Prepare
Communion is for those who have placed their faith in Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior. Jesus commanded His disciples to observe it (Matthew 26:26), so a personal relationship with Christ allows us to fully enter into its meaning. Because salvation can happen in a moment, through prayer, an invitation, or an altar call, we practice open communion. Anyone who has trusted in Jesus is welcome.

Beyond being a believer, we are called to prepare our hearts. The Apostle Paul warns us not to partake “in an unworthy manner” (1 Corinthians 11:27). This means we should take time for honest self-examination: “Let a man examine himself” (1 Corinthians 11:28). If we find unconfessed sin, we confess it to the Lord, knowing He is faithful to forgive and cleanse us (1 John 1:9) and to help us repair any broken relationships. In this way, we can participate with a clear conscience and enjoy the full blessings of the table.

The Past, Present, and Future Significance of Communion

  • Looking Back (Past): Communion calls us to remember Jesus’ substitutionary death on the cross. He didn’t just die for us, He died in our place. He took our sins upon Himself so we could receive His perfect righteousness (2 Corinthians 5:21).

  • Looking Within (Present): It is also a time of personal reflection and gratitude. As we come to the table, we thank the Lord for our salvation and the incredible privilege of being called His children.

  • Looking Ahead (Future): Communion points forward to the glorious return of Jesus Christ. Paul reminds us that every time we partake, we “proclaim the Lord’s death till He comes” (1 Corinthians 11:26). It is a beautiful foretaste of the great Marriage Supper of the Lamb (Revelation 19).

As believers, we stand between the two greatest events in history, the First Coming and the Second Coming of our Lord. When we observe Communion together, we are powerfully connected to both.

Communion at Calvary Chapel of Fergus Falls
We normally observe Communion on the first Sunday morning of each month, though we remain flexible and sensitive to the leading of the Holy Spirit for other special times.

Parents are encouraged to use their godly wisdom in deciding whether their children should participate, based on where each child is in their personal journey of faith in Christ.

We also strongly encourage families and small groups of believers to celebrate Communion together whenever the Lord leads. Jesus did not limit this observance to ordained pastors. As members of His holy priesthood (1 Peter 2:9-10; Revelation 1:5-6), every believer is invited to remember the Lord in this meaningful way.

When we approach the Lord’s Table in faith, it brings rich spiritual blessings, deeper intimacy with Christ, and sweet unity with one another.


Below is an excellent article about Communion that we hope will further encourage you…

Communion by Gayle D. Erwin

Recently, I contacted an old high school friend of mine and discovered that in his spiritual life, communion had become a sore spot. The communication that followed, along with some other requests, prompted this article.

Power and grace flow in this act we call communion. Power comes because the Holy Spirit is involved in pointing us to Jesus and helping us live right. Grace flows as we attach ourselves to His goodness. Let’s see if we can take some positions on the grace side of the fence.

First, many traditions exceed the authority of the Bible, thus victims of tradition abound. When Jesus began communion, his only commands were to do it and to do it to remember him. Some punish people by refusing to offer communion to them, however it should not be refused to anyone who wants to remember Jesus. Never forget how Jesus treated Judas!

Some churches limit administration of communion to special authorities or to special buildings. Jesus placed no such limitation. Communion belongs to the people, not to the elite. Communion is for anyone who wants to remember and honor Jesus. The very life and action of Jesus proved that. This is why “common people” heard him gladly.

Second, the very act of participating in communion identifies you with the Kingdom of God and symbolizes the continuing forgiveness of sin that Jesus offers. If in your heart you want to be His and are sorry for your own sins and wish to be cleansed of them, you have every reason to want to partake in communion. Communion reminds you that Jesus accepts you and “keeps on forgiving.”

Third, it is a celebration of what Jesus has already done, not what we have or are doing. That fact is the joy of the New Testament. Righteousness is beyond our achievement, so Jesus provided it for us by his death and resurrection. Now, all we have to do is believe on Him, accept His grace and we are “in.” This calls for a party! Yes, we call the party communion. Communion is the “Whoopee!” of living for God. I ache when I see churches turn it into some somber, sad moment. To remember the gracious, forgiving Jesus sets fireworks off in my heart. If anyone ever chooses to remember me, I hope they do it with joy and laughter. I think Jesus wants the same.

Fourth, communion is not a “reward” for having reached a certain age or joined a certain church. It is simply the memory of having a party over Jesus. It is a declaration of whose side you are on. It is a smile that remains when all the rest of ourselves has disappeared (to borrow from Alice in Wonderland). Communion is for anyone who wants to say “I believe and I belong.” It is not limited to those in good standing in some institution of religion. Often people ask me at what age they should permit their children to participate in communion. The answer is simply, “At whatever age you want them to remember Jesus.”

Fifth, some churches practice what is called “closed communion.” They permit no one except members of their group/denomination or local church to partake with them. By this act they recognize only themselves as Christians. This is dangerously close to partaking “unworthily” which Paul warned against in 1 Corinthians 11 by not discerning or recognizing the body of Christ. How sad it is when people pull their cloaks around them and shut themselves away from the awesome, growing body of Christ in the world. How dangerous, too, since we drink “judgment on ourselves” when we do.

Sixth, I have been in conferences where some church officials of high standing were present. They were free to participate in all parts of the meeting except communion. I realized that this moment was a watershed. If they partook in any communion except from their own hands, they were admitting that others beside themselves were saved and had direct access to God. In spite of all the talk of getting together or calling us “separated brethren,” until they take communion officially from us, they don’t recognize us as Christians and they don’t recognize what we do as communion.

Seventh, people have asked me if we should let non-believers participate in communion and I have heard preachers urge nonbelievers to refuse to participate. Why would a non-believer want to participate, anyway? Who are we to tell them not to do it, anyway? Maybe this is the nonbeliever’s way of saying “I now believe.” I have come to the conclusion that by the grace of God, I will never say “No.” I want to keep the hand of invitation extended. If we have the keys to the kingdom, let us use them to open up the door. Freely we have received, let us freely give.

Eighth, people ask how often we should partake in communion. Churches have even split over whether it was to be weekly, monthly, quarterly. I don’t know the answer to that. Jesus didn’t say. He only said that as often as we do it, do it in remembrance of him. Maybe we should do it as often as we wish to remember him. Hmm.

Ninth, the “early church” in Corinth violated the use of communion seriously. So seriously that Paul warned them that they would be condemning themselves and that many of them had become sick, weak and had even died because of their misuse of communion. It was not because the wrong hands administered or because they let non-believers participate. Rather, it was because they were not recognizing who their brothers and sisters were. Paul told them to examine themselves; i.e., look into their hearts and see whom they were excluding from the kingdom or their brotherhood. Any time we don’t recognize our brothers, we maim the body of Christ. Communion should be a time of repairing our relationships. One cannot “remember Jesus” without hearing him say, “Love one another as I have loved you.”

Finally, communion rings the bells of our expectancy. It reminds us that Jesus is returning and we will do this again with Him at a great banquet. What a healing to our hearts!

Hopefully you can now see that Jesus is God’s open door with a smiling, welcoming face. The table behind him is ready. Welcome to the party! Let’s eat!

 Gayle D. Erwin (1938-2025)
 Servant Quarters, https://gayleerwin.com

2025 CCA Heartland Pastors’ & Leaders’ Conference

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These videos are from the conference on September 18–20, 2025 with the theme of “A Shepherd’s Heart”

Session 1 – Pastor Mike Focht

  • The session encourages pastors and anyone who teaches God’s Word to recover the joy of preaching by looking at Paul in Ephesians 3. Preaching, he says, is first and foremost a gift of grace — none of us deserves it — and it’s meant to bless others, not elevate ourselves. Real power comes from the Holy Spirit, not clever methods or hype, so we can rest in God to work. We should speak simply, so normal people can understand, keep the focus on Jesus rather than our own stories, and love the church we’re called to serve. Even when ministry is hard or discouraging, joy returns when we see preaching as a privilege, trust God’s strength, and stay amazed at Christ and His people.

Session 2 – Pastor Patrick Farrell

  • This message is from Titus 2–3, and urges believers—especially pastors and church leaders—to stay grounded in sound doctrine, so their lives match their message. In a climate of fear, anger, and calls for violence after tragedies like Charlie Kirk’s murder, Christians must reject hate and vengeance and instead show Jesus through integrity, gentleness, and love, even toward enemies. Our mission isn’t to win culture wars, but to worship, witness, and lead people to Christ by living differently from the world. Change won’t come through retaliation but through prayer, humility, repentance, and asking God for revival that begins in our own hearts and overflows into the church and nation.

Session 3 – Pastor Jared Clements

  • The message walks through Mark 1 and encourages pastors and ministry leaders to serve like Jesus: remember He often chooses the unlikely, so lead with humility; prioritize making disciples, not just sermons; keep teaching the Word simply and clearly; expect spiritual pushback when God is moving; stay steady through busy seasons but anchor everything in prayer; be ready to follow God’s unexpected directions in faith; and show deep compassion to the “lepers” of our day. Bottom line: hold the line on God’s unchanging Word, love people well, and be faithful where you are—God will open the right doors at the right time.

Session 4 – Pastor David Rosales

  • This teaching is from John 6:60–71: Jesus makes exclusive claims, many walk away, and He asks, “Do you also want to go?” It’s a call for pastors to preach the Word (not entertainment), rely on the Spirit, endure discouragement, and accept God’s breaking that makes us useful. Through personal stories of salvation and trials, he urges self-examination (Judas/Demas), steadfast faith, and finishing well.

Session 5 – Pastor Wes Denham

  • The talk moves from “katan to king” (1 Sam 16) to practical leadership and soul care: God chooses the overlooked; don’t fear man like Saul; raise leaders slowly (watch for “Agags”); cultivate humility, intimacy with God, and Jonathan/Nathan friendships; expect spears and stay pure. Part two contrasts brain (physical, trauma, pathways) with mind (eternal): renew the mind by Scripture and the Spirit, use biblical counseling, and boldly speak truth in a confused culture.

Session 6 – Pastor David Rosales

  • This message (Mark 10:46–52) uses Bartimaeus to paint “the heart of a minister”: Jesus stops for hurting people, so pastors should cultivate compassion, not just technique—spending time with teams, mentoring, noticing pain, and guiding folks to Christ. Don’t fear disruptions; help the needy get to Jesus. Train and equip others, keep a shepherd’s heart, and keep your eyes open for the harvest.

Session 7 – Pastor Mike Focht

  • This talk unpacks pastoral correction as central ministry, not a detour. From 2 Timothy 2:23–26 and 4:1–2, we’re called to be non-quarrelsome, gentle to all, able to teach, patient, and humble—using Scripture to convince, rebuke, and exhort so people repent and escape the enemy’s snares. It’s messy, often uncomfortable, but real love speaks biblically in season and out, trusting God to work even when reactions vary.

Session 8 – Pastor Josh Blevins

  • Matthew 20’s vineyard parable confronts pastoral entitlement: God owes us nothing; service is a grace, not leverage. Framed by Peter’s “what do we get?” (Mt 19:27–30) and James/John angling for rank (20:20–28), Jesus shows the landowner’s generosity exposes our hearts. Three entitlement tells: (1) “I deserve more than promised,” (2) “I have a right to complain,” (3) “I deserve more because I did more.” Three servant counters: (1) God always keeps His promises—rejoice in what He has said, not stories we invent; (2) God always gives what is right—trade comparison for gratitude; (3) the problem is my perception—“Is your eye evil because I am good?” Pastors aren’t owed outcomes, platforms, or comfort; we’re invited to downward, cross-shaped greatness: losing life to find it, seeing people as the mission, serving with thanks whether hired at dawn or the eleventh hour. Let our ministries be marked by gratitude, faith, and joy in the Master’s goodness.

* Worship Workshop | Holland Davis.

  • Holland Davis, a seasoned worship leader and pastor, shares practical insights on leading worship effectively, drawing from his time under Pastor Chuck Smith at Calvary Chapel Costa Mesa. He emphasizes aligning worship with a pastor’s vision, using Psalm 100 to guide services from joyful praise to awe-filled reverence, and encourages writing original songs tailored to the local congregation. He advises against imitating popular worship trends or using overly complex songs, advocating for authenticity, simplicity, and responsiveness to the Holy Spirit. He offers tips on seamless transitions, minimal reliance on tech like click tracks, and building trust with pastors through open communication. This engaging, practical workshop is ideal for worship leaders seeking to minister biblically and effectively.

* Tech in Ministry & the Home Workshop | Jon Medina

  • Jon Median, has worked in Youth Ministry and shares actionable strategies for using technology to amplify church outreach and strengthen family devotions. From setting up affordable home streaming stations to navigating digital tools for discipleship, he provides biblical insights and practical tips to help leaders and parents harness tech without letting it dominate life. This insightful session reminds us that innovation should always point back to God’s glory—perfect for anyone blending faith with modern tools. Watch now for ideas that could transform your ministry or home setup!

* Church Administration Workshop | Ryan Cline and Adam Przybylski

  • This workshop helps equip church leaders with biblical and practical strategies for effective ministry management, from budgeting and volunteer training to digital tools that free up time for what matters most. The speakers dive into real-world challenges like nonprofit compliance and team coordination, all grounded in Scriptures like Nehemiah for building sustainably. Whether you’re a pastor juggling roles or an admin streamlining operations, this session offers actionable wisdom to glorify God through organized excellence. Tune in for inspiration that turns admin headaches into opportunities for growth!

“The Makings Of A Godly Man” with Pastor Jack Hibbs

Masculinity is under attack. Does God say anything about being a provider or being strong? What about compassion? How about anger? What about a man’s integrity? Join us as Pastor Jack takes a look at what the Bible says about Godly character.

https://ccfergusfalls.com/bible-study-teachings/the-makings-of-a-godly-man-with-pastor-jack-hibbs

Shared at our September 2025 Men’s Supper – “The Makings Of A Godly Man” with Pastor Jack Hibbs

Calvary Distinctives Overview

Why exist if we’re like every other church? We’d rather join others than take up space. Pastor Tim Molter shares in a special message that Calvary’s unique expression of God’s heart sets us apart, despite shared commonalities with other churches.

Calvary Distinctives Overview:

  1. God’s Model For The Church
  2. Church Government
  3. Empowered By The Spirit
  4. Building The Church God’s Way
  5. Grace Upon Grace
  6. The Priority Of The Word
  7. The Centrality Of Jesus Christ
  8. The Rapture Of The Church
  9. Having Begun In The Spirit
  10. The Supremacy Of Love
  11. Striking The Balance
  12. Ventures Of Faith

To learn more, we encourage you to review our Beliefs and Statement of Faith, and read the Calvary Chapel Distinctives. Our hope is that once you know who we are and what we value, that you’ll desire to become apart of our church family.

Children in the Worship Service – Resources

We love families and kids! We hope these resources with a focus on children in the worship service will be a great blessing to you and your family! https://churchandfamilylife.com/resources/topics/60c927f7826ba92e9196fce9

Book: Shepherding a Child’s Heart by Ted Tripp

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Very few books deal with the inward heart of a child as deal with the outward behavior of children. “Shepherding a Child’s Heart” is a that valuable help for parents. It’s a book about how to speak to the heart. The things your child does and says flows from the heart. This insightful book provides perspectives and procedures to Shepherd, your child’s heart into the path of life guided by scripture.

With the plethora of material on parenting and the family, it is surprising—and distressing—to see how few books are genuinely biblical. Here is a refreshing exception. Tedd Tripp offers solid, trustworthy, biblical help for parents. If you are looking for the right perspective and practical help, you won’t find a more excellent guide.
~ Pastor John MacArthur

I am glad to recommend this book for its remarkably clear, biblical, and practical teaching. Earnest fathers and mothers will find it also eminently ‘do-able.’
~ Elisabeth Elliot

Many parenting books are based on hit-or-miss theories steeped in secular thinking. This one draws from Pastor Tripp’s seasoned experience as a father-and from God’s Holy Word. Grounded in the Bible’s divine plan for parenting, this guide defines your goals as a parent and provides the Scriptural methods for accomplishing them.

How to get this resource:

See if the book is available from your local library – It’s free (Minnesota Viking Library System)

Shepherding a Child’s Heart (Amazon) at: https://a.co/d/j67i3nn

Shepherding a Child’s Heart (Christian Books) at: https://www.christianbook.com/shepherding-childs-heart-revised-and-updated/tedd-tripp/9780966378603/pd/37191

Shepherding a Child’s Heart (Shepherd Press) at: https://www.shepherdpress.com/products/shepherding-a-childs-heart/

Communion (The Lord’s Supper) by Gayle Erwin

Gayle D. Erwin (1938-2025) – Gayle Erwin was a global minister known for his simple yet powerful message about Jesus and servant living. With a varied background as a pastor, teacher, and writer, he authored several popular books, including “The Jesus Style” and “Handbook for Servants.” His humorous style and relatable anecdotes have delighted audiences worldwide. Through his ministry, Servant Quarters, he shared the message through speaking, writing, and storytelling.

Communion

Recently, I contacted an old high school friend of mine and discovered that in his spiritual life, communion had become a sore spot. The communication that followed, along with some other requests, prompted this article.

Power and grace flow in this act we call communion. Power comes because the Holy Spirit is involved in pointing us to Jesus and helping us live right. Grace flows as we attach ourselves to His goodness. Let’s see if we can take some positions on the grace side of the fence.

First, many traditions exceed the authority of the Bible, thus victims of tradition abound. When Jesus began communion, his only commands were to do it and to do it to remember him. Some punish people by refusing to offer communion to them, however it should not be refused to anyone who wants to remember Jesus. Never forget how Jesus treated Judas!

Some churches limit administration of communion to special authorities or to special buildings. Jesus placed no such limitation. Communion belongs to the people, not to the elite. Communion is for anyone who wants to remember and honor Jesus. The very life and action of Jesus proved that. This is why “common people” heard him gladly.

Second, the very act of participating in communion identifies you with the Kingdom of God and symbolizes the continuing forgiveness of sin that Jesus offers. If in your heart you want to be His and are sorry for your own sins and wish to be cleansed of them, you have every reason to want to partake in communion. Communion reminds you that Jesus accepts you and “keeps on forgiving.”

Third, it is a celebration of what Jesus has already done, not what we have or are doing. That fact is the joy of the New Testament. Righteousness is beyond our achievement, so Jesus provided it for us by his death and resurrection. Now, all we have to do is believe on Him, accept his grace and we are “in.” This calls for a party! Yes, we call the party communion. Communion is the “Whoopee!” of living for God. I ache when I see churches turn it into some somber, sad moment. To remember the gracious, forgiving Jesus sets fireworks off in my heart. If anyone ever chooses to remember me, I hope they do it with joy and laughter. I think Jesus wants the same.

Fourth, communion is not a “reward” for having reached a certain age or joined a certain church. It is simply the memory having a party over Jesus. It is a declaration of whose side you are on. It is a smile that remains when all the rest of ourselves has disappeared (to borrow from Alice in Wonderland). Communion is for anyone who wants to say “I believe and I belong.” It is not limited to those in good standing in some institution of religion. Often people ask me at what age they should permit their children to participate in communion. The answer is simply, “At whatever age you want them to remember Jesus.”

Fifth, some churches practice what is called “closed communion.” They permit no one except members of their group/denomination or local church to Partake with them. By this act they recognize only themselves as Christians. This is dangerously close to partaking “unworthily” which Paul warned against in 1 Corinthians 11 by not discerning or recognizing the body of Christ. How sad it is when people pull their cloaks around them and shut themselves away from the awesome, growing body of Christ in the world. How dangerous, too, since we drink “judgment on ourselves” when we do.

Sixth, I have been in conferences where some church officials of high standing were present. They were free to participate in all parts of the meeting except communion. I realized that this moment was a watershed. If they partook in any communion except from their own hands, they were admitting that others beside themselves were saved and had direct access to God. In spite of all the talk of getting together or calling us “separated brethren,” until they take communion officially from us, they don’t recognize us as Christians and they don’t recognize what we do as communion.

Seventh, people have asked me if we should let non-believers participate in communion and I have heard preachers urge nonbelievers to refuse to participate. Why would a non-believer want to participate, anyway? Who are we to tell them not to do it, anyway? Maybe this is the nonbeliever’s way of saying “I now believe.” I have come to the conclusion that by the grace of God, I will never say “No.” I want to keep the hand of invitation extended. If we have the keys to the kingdom, let us use them to open up the door. Freely we have received, let us freely give.

Eighth, people ask how often we should partake in communion. Churches have even split over whether it was to be weekly, monthly, quarterly. I don’t know the answer to that. Jesus didn’t say. He only said that as often as we do it, do it in remembrance of him. Maybe we should do it as often as we wish to remember him. Hmm.

Ninth, the “early church” in Corinth violated the use of communion seriously. So seriously that Paul warned them that they would be condemning themselves and that many of them had become sick, weak and had even died because of their misuse of communion. It was not because the wrong hands administered or because they let non-believers participate. Rather, it was because they were not recognizing who their brothers and sisters were. Paul told them to examine themselves; i.e., look into their hearts and see whom they were excluding from the kingdom or their brotherhood. Any time we don’t recognize our brothers, we maim the body of Christ. Communion should be a time of repairing our relationships. One cannot “remember Jesus” without hearing him say, “Love one another as I have loved you.”

Finally, communion rings the bells of our expectancy. It reminds us that Jesus is returning and we will do this again with Him at a great banquet. What a healing to our hearts!

Hopefully you can now see that Jesus is God’s open door with a smiling, welcoming face. The table behind him is ready. Welcome to the party! Let’s eat!

Source: https://gayleerwin.com

Dads and Sons by Dr. James Dobson

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Dr. James Dobson give us a timeless and insightful book that explores the complex and often challenging world of raising boys. As a renowned psychologist and family expert, Dr. Dobson shares his wisdom and experience on how to navigate the journey of fatherhood and help boys become confident, capable, and compassionate men.

Boys need guidance, support, and encouragement as they navigate the journey to manhood, and that fathers play a critical role in shaping their sons’ identities and values. Through practical advice, real-life examples, and biblical principles, Dr. Dobson shows how fathers can:

  • Build strong relationships with their sons
  • Foster a sense of masculinity and identity
  • Encourage emotional intelligence and empathy
  • Model integrity, responsibility, and leadership
  • Help their sons navigate the challenges of adolescence and young adulthood

The book is not just a guide for fathers, but also a reminder of the significance of male role models in shaping the next generation of men. Boys need to be encouraged to take risks, develop resilience, and cultivate a sense of purpose, and that fathers play a critical role in modeling these values.

How to get this resource:

See if the book is available from your local library – It’s free (Minnesota Viking Library System)

Teaching from Rest (Amazon) at: https://www.amazon.com/Dads-Sons-James-C-Dobson/dp/1414388217